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Bridgette's avatar

I'm not sure what makes so many people positively aroused by the idea of selflessness. Even Christ (Julius by another name) had his motives. I once heard the online activity of free problem solving described as "random acts of kindness." At the time, I was in my living room and fully immersed in multirecreational activities involving a bottle of jack and some musky smelling stuff I can't remember the name of and was thus a likely target to be struck by what a beautiful and apt description this was, but not because it meant that people are on the internet selflessly helping others answer questions, think through problems, etc.. I recall instead thinking that the very condition that most, if not all, neurotypical humans share in their desire (biological programming by a different name? We may never know...) to help others because it makes them feel good to do so - and so they are getting something out of it - is quite worthy of admiration all by itself. Sticking to the example of helpful online actors, it's easy to see how often times "thank you" isn't even necessarily the exchange medium for acts of "true altruism" as you describe it here. Sometimes the urge to grapple with a problem when there's a possibility of coming out in mount is enough benefit to produce a sense of reciprocity and sustain behaviors that consequently help others, even if the reward is some internal metric unseen from the outside. On the surface, this may look a bit like a selfless act, but upon closer inspection it's easy to see the positive inclination toward being useful that each of us has - and determining whether this exists as a design feature or a bug is probably a less enjoyable pursuit than simply appreciating its precious existence for what it is. Take it from me - that night I mentioned above? It was super fun.

I agree with your ideas here, aligning your motivations with your values will help produce good outcomes and probably produce fewer hypocrites. If there could be widespread cultural acceptance of the idea that getting something (money, praise, whatever isn't outright stolen) in exchange for doing something helpful is a positive behavioral driver in the pursuit of a more harmonious existence on this planet, it might be easier to express that this is often directly tied to a person's sense of worth and meaning in life. Why that's a pesky idea that needs squashing in the eyes of some EA supporters, I'm not entirely sure. I might start trying to answer that by addressing the guilt that might come from being out of tune with your motivations and the internal disharmony that naturally follows from such a situation. Nice post.

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William Hunter Duncan's avatar

Most of the people I have encountered who talked about selflessly helping others might more accurately be described as on the "spectrum of sociopathy."

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